Mild is just old harsh that we got attuned to.
Be it agony or euphoria…everything gets normalized with time and consistency.
One sentence “this shall too pass” is the strongest remedy I have heard so far, and the biggest injustice we can ever do to ourselves.
You know what it actually means??
This means let the needles take a few more swirls. Concentrate on the needles. The time.
The information that had potential to ruin you will still do the same. But your focus will be cemented on the needles.
And the time will pass.
Until you will realize its time to get back to routine.
And then the next thing hits you. Then you again start looking at the clock and wait for the time to pass.
This habit of anesthetizing yourself doesn’t means the problems are getting milder. Or you are getting stronger.
It means you are too weak too scared to face whats happening, you are into intentionally numbing yourself.
I hope I am making sense at all.
This is holiday season for most of us there is something that needs to be said loud and clear and addressed.
Ever wondered why somebody who was laughing and smiling yesterday suddenly threw a huge tantrum for no apparent reason, even worse chose to end his/her life?
Let me tell you.
When they were smiling in front of you. They were looking at the needles. Letting all the pain pile up inside. Until a point reached when they lost patience.
Its nobody’s fault. Nobody wants to ruin his/her life.
I have this request to all of you.
Look around. Look at your loved ones with the question “are they battling something inside” in your mind. Ask them genuinely how are they and how is life treating them.
It’s a great opportunity to spot the red flags.
Be less judgmental and try to understand more.
I am not a saint. Nobody is. We all have done things we blame others for. We all judge people for their reactions. We all are responsible somewhere even if it’s 0.00001%.
People can be lonely in a crowded room. They might be draping mountains of torment with a simple smile.
Just try to look behind that smile.
I hope I am not ruining the fun you all are looking forward too.
We all need each other no matter what we say.
I know it’s not a very holiday-ish post, but I hope it helps someone.
And the reason I am saying this to all of you is that I know you guys.
If you can take care and be there for a stranger like me you have the heart that can help heal a lot of people out there.
With this I wish you all happy holidays 🙂
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