I’m triggered these days. It’s been a week in my culture and I feel I’m going to throw up or my head will explode.
It’s depressing women are so badly defeated they voluntarily stay in physically abusive relationships, mental and emotional abuse doesn’t even count.
Half of my head hurts. Recently in 2, 3 situations I tried to speak up for the innocent person when my side was a guilty one but it didn’t work.
It’s a nonstop cycle. You see injustice . You try to explain people that it’s wrong. And the you are the outspoken and disobedient one.
And I’m getting tired of this.
I saw this in a restroom of a mall in Dubai.
And I am proud of this organisation for their effort. It was everywhere in the bathroom.
But then I thought how many women would have dared to contact them?
Here comes the frightening part, very few. Probably none.
I have known plenty of cases to believe that.
Every country has a law. Every religion has law for domestic violence. Then why do our women still staying with assholes?
Let me answer you this.
Because people misinterpret law.
I was just working with dad on a case and we could see 50 dimensions a situation can be twisted depending on what side you are on.
I’m a Muslim and I can only speak for my religion. People picked a few verses for thier advantage and exploited women on those.
It’s not fault of a whole book or whole religion, if part of a verse is picked and manipulated.
People do the same with laws everywhere. Don’t let this happen to you.
I have never been a feminist. I had more guy friends than girl friends and I was closer to my dad. But as I grew up I couldn’t help notice the injustice especially when I fell prey to it.
There is a constant black hole in my life that I don’t have strength to talk about, as this place is a escape from that hell hole.
There’s is something I want you all to know.
READ THE LAW!
No matter where you are at least read the basics. Everything is available online.
Know your standing.
It’s not restricted to abuse only.
If you doubt there is something someone can exploit you with, read about it.
You don’t have to be a licensed attorney. Just read the basics.
Like a simple short story.
And in case you are in a middle of a case, and you have a lawyer. Still read!
Lawyers can overlook tons of things, intentionally or unintentionally.
The letter we had was drafted with advice from 2 lawyers and a judge, and we didn’t know if thier level of intellect is sad or funny.
So do your own research.
I am telling you from my own experience. No one will fight for you as valiantly as you can.
Don’t take yourself for granted and don’t let anyone exploit, abuse or manipulate you.
Life doesn’t end with an abusive relationship/marriage. Give yourself a chance.
And please fight! Fight for yourself!
You are worth saving.
You are worth all the happiness in the world.
Kindly visit my post Warriors Invited To Raise Mental Health Awareness where I am inviting Mental Health Warriors to submit their blog’s address so that we can join hands to control this wildfire.
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