I dont understand how manners have become some rare dinosaurs fossils.
What’s wrong with people.
I m not talking about royal level manners but at least normal human level manners where you are just treating other person as a normal human too.
I mean.
Just caring to not annoy people around you.
I’m fuming!
And when you are following some implied etiquette suddenly you become the sensitive one or aloof.
Like how do you mix shameless clongliness with being social. How does that make you a friendly person.
And that too with people you are not even close with.
And if you say it’s wrong.
You are not friendly and shit.
I dont know. My head will explode today.
You cant really teach people normal etiquette sometimes and then they drag you in thier emabarasing shameless shenanigans. Because o my God they are so friendly
I mean wtf is wrong with you. You are torturing people because you dont understand and respect privacy!
I have seen people do this and its nauseating.
Maybe I was raised differently.
I was raised with very basic level of manners and this behaviour for me is just unbearable.
Tell me if I’m wrong.
Stoner on a rollercoaster 
Manners maketh man (or woman) x
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Thanks for saying that. It means the world to me right now.
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You can’t stop people being rude. You just have to think how silly they are. By being rude they lose friends and also find it harder to make their way in the world.
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If it’s the opposite. They are not being rude. Instead they dont respect general rules of normal behaviour. And don’t respect any kind of boundaries of anyone
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Are they quite young?
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No. Actually a generation older than me.
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Interesting. I suppose they could feel superior because they are older. People are strange!
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It they can just get away with anything as they are older and you are not supposed to tell them what a piece of shit they are.
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The priveledges of age I guess. Still silly. Better to care for others but I’m soft hearted
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Yea just priviledge of age when they expect tons from younger lot.
I know you’re soft hearted 🙂❤
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👍👍👍😊
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Nope. You’re not wrong. It’s an epidemic, actually. Some numbnut is always showing their ass somewhere, displaying whatever volume/behavior/attitude/language/puffery they choose, and act like you’re the asshat for calling them on their bullshit. I’m not a violent person, generally, but those turd burglars make me want to throat punch ‘em.
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EXACTLY!! Please behave like a normal person and I don’t really care if its not bothering someone, but sometimes people clearly end up hurting/embarrassing/annoying others and they thing it’s cool. Cmon!!
I mean no matter what you do, how nice you are, how many sacrifice you make to please people so that they let you live with peace. BUT NO!!
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One in every crowd, man. 😏
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Usually more than one..tragically sometimes majority of a crowd. I don’t understand how come basics have become so rare.
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Neither can I. It makes me glad I live rurally, though. I’d hurt someone, end up in jail, or both if I lived in a densely populated locale, I’m afraid.
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I envy you!
I feel that everyday.. one day people are going to make me send myself to jail.
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I hear ya’. 😃
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Hm, I am not really sure what are we talking about. I assume I must be there to see it in order to understand your problem. Did you mean about the people who impose themselves in other people’s matters?
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People with no sense or privacy and basic manners. And then you are unfortunately a little more mannered than them they consider you as antisocial or something.
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F those people. Plebs. They just have no limits to what is acceptable behavior and what’s a genuine infringement of someone else’s privacy. I fully understand you now.
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Yes. You exactly understood. I need to learn to be in a numb state and just let them do thier shit. In the end everyone who sees can see the difference between you and them.
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The best is to say your “thank yous” to such people and “goodbye” them forever! 😉
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Or just turn the “ignore” switch on. It’s exhausting to even expect better from them
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You bet! IGNORING THEM is the politest thing that you can do! 😛
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Yea a little below strangling 😂
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You are not wrong. People seem to be so wrapped in themselves and are blinded to all around them. It drives me nuts.
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Thank you!! Yes they don’t even realize their behaviour is ruining someone’s day.
Me too!
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Manners should be as used as one’s breath…
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Exactly!! Thank you.
And if someone doesn’t know it as part of breathing I highly doubt they will ever know.
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Agreed
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Honestly I can understand your frustration. And sometimes people just don’t know that they are being because they continue to claim that they did not know when they clearly make the choice to do so.
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O my GOD EXACTLYYYYY
The innocence they play after embarrassing you is classic!
There has to be a school where these people should be sent to learn being normal
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Unfortunately I doubt that would help because it also matters how you are taught at home so if they’re parents never corrected their behavior when they were growing up then it will be difficult to do so now that they are grown
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We’re all guilty stoner. I hope my years on the planet have taught me something as I look at the ignorance all around me and, unfortunately, inside me. I’m grieved by your pain but I’m encouraged that you’re thinking and trying to make our world a better place.
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And the rude people think something is wrong with you.
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Yea. You are a psycho because you think it’s wrong to have some boundaries.
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I am baffled daily by the lack of basic human courtesy. Like the cashier who won’t put down the phone or stop gabbing with her friend and give me 30 seconds of service with a smile.
I’m a psycho that way, expecting people to do their jobs instead of socializing and ignoring me.
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People must respect thier jobs and customer service depends on how you treat people. That’s literally all it is about.
Fortunately Dubai is a bit finicky about customer service so I never really had a problem. But I have heard horror stories from people living elsewhere.
And wherever you are facing customers first hand you have to behave yourself, because that’s your priority.
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It doesn’t cost anything to say ‘Thank You’ or smile and return a greeting of ‘good morning’ etc. I was brought up to be polite and respect my elders. I have my moments when I really want to smash their face in, but I smile and say Thank you. 🙂
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Yea. That’s another problem. I would prefer a person who doesnt say thank you over the one who grabs my arms and shakes it while saying “thank you”.
Or take my picture or make my videos without my knowledge and show it to people I dont even know. Because it should be totally tolerable and they are just being friendly.
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Yikes.
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Yea…can’t even begin to explain.. its traumatic
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