My head is frozen so I dont think I can string togather words to write in detail.
A news just numbed us today. In Pakistan, a women got raped in front of her kids on the way to some relatives, when her car ran out of feul on the highway.
And an officer blatantly blamed her for “taking the secluded road, driver late night, not checking feul tank…”
May God show him soon what it feels like to be in place of a victim. And the monsters who did this, I wish the absolute worst for them!
People are speaking up on social media and all.
I read a snippet of news and I cant feel ok. Its 5 am I dont think I can sleep.
I have alot going on in my life but this news just froze my brain. I talked to sam we both couldn’t talk abt it. The brutality is unbelievable.
Our culture don’t let normal women live, I have no idea what hell this poor soul will go through. Can’t imagine the trauma..
But can we do one thing?
Can we just stop judging people?
Can we stop blaming people for whatever the unfortunate events happen to them?
Nobody wants to suffer. NOBODY!
I haven’t met one person who is ok with suffering.
Everyone dreams of a happy healthy successful joyous life!
For the love of God stop finding mistakes in them, their past, their behaviors, their personality, whatever their parents did, thier dicisions, just stop doing it.
STOP VICTIM BLAMING!
You do that when you dont want to help the victim or be there for them. When you don’t want to acknowledge their suffering so that you can calm your own conscience.
If you lack ability to be kind. Please be nothing, say nothing and move on!
You don’t have to spit venom on someone who is already charred to bone.
We all do it or have done it on smaller scale. We are humans, we judge. But I realized growing up how wrong this is.
Can we be more carefull with our words and actions?
Can we choose to keep shut if we don’t have anything nicer to say.
I’m gone. My head is just..
Please guys. Just use your words wisely and nicely.
People say 2020 is a mess hoenstly I have seen worse years.
Please have a heart.
When you decide to judge someone or blame them, place yourself in their position for a moment, I’m sure you will stop.
Please be kind. Life’s unfair enough already.