You know whats the worst part of being in an abusive relationship??
You start to question and blame yourself.
Because they manipulate you into thinking that no matter how horrible their behaviour is, they are the best you could ever get.
And the society keeps reminding you world out there is worse.
So you just sit back in a corner and wait for your slow death, accepting your fate. The fate that’s fed to you mind.
A lot of people stay in abusive relationships because change can be extremely intimidating. I have seen people suffering from all sort of abuse and still staying.
Some even have all the support in the world and all the options they can get to build a better life. But it’s their heart and soul that’s broken.
You feel shattered and scattered and you dont know where to start collecting yourself from.
Somebody who wants to enslave you in a relationship is always going to be insecure and will always be scared of losing control over you, all the time.
Honestly, i dont know what to say
I can’t promise once you get out, outside world will be giving you warm fuzzy hugs.
I can’t assure you will spring back and full-fill all you dreams at once.
But i feel..
I just feel freedom is worth all the pain and suffering you go through during the process.
Once you are out of shackles of a bully, you are no more afraid of their schemes, humiliation, lies and constant gaslighting.
The toxins they injected in you will slowly drain out. Without fear, you are able to think straight and focus on yourself, that abusers never let you do.
And then there will be you. A stronger and wiser than ever person who literally rose from ashes. And trust me once you have actually survived some real shit in life, the rest of the life becomes easier.
Always know you are not what people tell you and you deserve to be happy!
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